1. The comfort with your appearance to be naked, makeup-free, and completely casual without feeling like you want to peel your skin off every time your significant other sees you in your natural state.
2. The ability to meet, interact with, and impress (within reason) someone’s parents when the time comes.
3. Enough financial stability that you are not going to enter a relationship specifically to help you out with your expenses or give you the luxury of doing what you want. (And who knows, maybe you can even be the person doing the helping out if the need arises.)
4. A good idea of where you want to be, and what you want to be doing, in five years.
5. Enough experiences in your life that felt satisfying, that you can look back on fondly without constantly torturing yourself over never having done things when you had the chance.
6. The maturity to never again break up with someone in a shitty, disrespectful way, such as over a text message or by just dating someone else without telling them.
7. Enough people in your life — friends, family, authority figures — who can give you good advice when it comes to the difficult moments in your relationship. Because you will need them at one point or another if you want to make it work in the long-term.
8. The knowledge that fun, and change, and growth, do not suddenly end when you are in a relationship.
9. The desire to learn a lot of new things, and start to love food, music, culture, and hobbies that you’d never before even heard of.
10. A clear idea of the things you bring to a relationship, your value, and the reasons why someone would want to be dating you.
11. The ability to take care of yourself independently if you need to, because there may come a day, after a relationship, when you need to do it again.
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