Things Guys Wish Girls Knew

Want to know the little secrets Guys keep but wish you could know .

Yes, there is a list! A well protected, closely guarded document that goes beyond ‘what to wear on the first date’ and delves deep into the things that really matter to the tough ones. Men chase women and women woo men, that’s the way it has always been.

So her's a list on what guys wish girls knew  .

Asking girls out is a big deal for us. So, just because we are acting cool doesn’t mean we aren’t shivering inside. It won’t hurt to appreciate the effort.

Going on a date is a 2-way thing. Taking an active interest in helping us decide the place would go a long way in letting us know you are in.

Yes, dolling up takes time and is really flattering but please, please be on time. We may not say this up front but being late isn’t fashionable and no, it isn’t sweet either; no matter how you look.

Also, being ‘fashionably late’ isn’t every guy’s thing. More often than not, we like people, including us, to be on time. Especially when we come to meet you!

So you are a vegan..big deal! I like my meat and you going all “Eww..” doesn’t add any feathers to your ‘green’ cap. Just let me keep my choices.

We aren’t all pigs. And even if we are, we don’t go out with Miss Pigs. So freshening up and smelling nice for a date won’t hurt. But please, hold it on the makeup.

Don’t be an open book. We like a mystery.

Ex-talk is a turn off; even worse than bad breath.

Keep the conversation alive. Unrequited flirting never turned on any sensible guy.

We don’t ask personal question on dates. And while asking about our best friends is ok, whether or not we get along with our dads is really none of your business on the first date.

Reach for the bill but don’t pay. We’d like to be with women who are independent but establishing our chivalry is equally important.

Eat like humans please; we don’t date birds. Getting too finicky about food is not classy anymore.

Future talk on first date should be restricted to career and general fun things. If you discuss marriage and kids, don’t be surprised if there is no call back..ever!

You want me to listen, pay attention to me too. My game talk is as important as your girl talk.

Drink. Don’t get drunk!

Guys don’t dislike sharing food. It is just annoying when you order a healthy salad only to dig into our fries and desserts the moment they arrive. We won’t judge you for eating.

‘Am I looking fat’ is a double edged sword. A ‘no’ is never believed while a ‘yes’ would only be another soup; please spare us the agony.

Shopping is our hell. And asking us for opinions that you know you wouldn’t agree with is hardly an ego boost. Also, a little secret – guys don’t get colours. We don’t know teal from turquoise or steel grey from metallic grey. There are 7 colours in the rainbow and that’s where it ends for us.

We like our space. We love you but we love ourselves too. So, frowning upon that little beer time with the guys or a little quiet time on weekends or even a while longer in the bed alone is a human rights violation. We don’t frown on your shower time, you don’t get to frown on our ‘lone time’.

If we like you, we would want you all to ourselves. You talking to anyone else is out of question. It isn’t a way of getting our attention; it is just making us insecure and we don’t like being that way.

.Tom Cruise gets paid to look good. We do it for you. Appreciate the effort!