Dating Rules You Should Break !

1. Don't have sex on the first date, but be prepared to jump into bed on the third.

Rules about when or whether to hit the sack with a new partner can be confusing. Sometimes, especially if you're not necessarily looking for something long-term, moving fast feels right (as long as you stay safe). But conversely, believing you should have sex after a specific number of dates can feel artificial, not to mention scary in some cases.

2. Never talk about your ex-boyfriend or -husband on a date.

There's a grain of good advice in this rule, which is that you don't want to spend the whole date bad-mouthing an ex and coming across as bitter, says Dr. Lyon. But the idea that you should never bring up your past is outmoded

3. Always avoid touchy subjects like religion and politics.

The reason this rule gained traction is that making strong views known used to be seen as unladylike. Plus, it could cause friction between you and your date, and the last thing you'd want is to end up in a mighty Red State/Blue State battle over margaritas.

4. The guy should always pay.

This rule got its start back when nearly all men had more disposable income than women, who were probably dating while still living in their parents' home. These days, not only are you not a jobless youngster, but you might be more financially secure than your date. Not to mention that you may not want to be beholden to him either.

5. Don't reveal your desire for children, a new career or any other life goal.

It's mighty old-fashioned to be so demure with a new guy that you don't reveal your true wishes for what you want out of life. In the past, you may have been told to keep your desire to have children, for example, under wraps out of fear that you might scare away a guy who isn't quite ready to settle down yet. Following this rule is, in addition to being outdated, dishonest and disingenuous.