First Date : Sex Or Not?

First date. The heart beats a little faster, a thousand questions in mind, one wonders whether this person will like us and if it will be reciprocal. And then ... it goes well. Wonderful, even! There is an alchemy, an attraction, a nascent complicity. A new question is then burst: on or not sleep after that first date? We follow our instincts or wait (to better know each other and see if it's a one-night or so deeper)? And when we decided to take the step, we improvise happily, or we anticipate any (candles: check, pretty panties / underwear owl: check)?

HAVING SEX OR NOT THE FIRST EVENING?


Above all: what relation maintain single sex? Does it matter to them? 67% answered that yes, it is. We note that said, a gender difference, 75% of men putting sex in the top 5 priorities, against 59% of women. There are still 7% of respondents who think it is not important at all. They are "no-sex" these people claiming being in love without love? Mystery, but continue the exploration of the sexuality of our singles ...

Are they or have they already set the first date? 58% of interviewed (s) say no. 66% prefer to wait until at least the third appointment. But beware, they expect not only to make up the deliciously erotic tension, or to see if there really is a feeling in the meeting. There are some other reasons in the decision: 24% (31% women, 18% men) do not sleep the first night because the partner may have less respect for them and 13% because they fear that, therefore, it is not interested in them. Like what the old clichés (who layer on the first night = easy girl or obsessed) still have a sharp tongue.

"I THINK I HAVE AN OPENING"

Whether at the first meeting or at the Fifth, how to know that the other wants to spend the night with you? You can always try the blunt: "you fuck?", But it is a bit risky. The most explicit signs, according to respondents, are: the proposal for a drink (61%), the fact that the other is more tactile than usual (47%) and allusions with humor ( 45%). In contrast to our respondents, if he or she bites her lip (15%) or playing with her hair (10%), it does not mean anything. Except maybe he or she has tics.


LAST DRINK?

It was launched a few allusions, now he or she offers a drink at home. What do the interviewees? They are generally romantic: 54% is a way to extend the tryst because he / she appreciates your conversations, against 39% who think it is obvious that he / she wants to spend the night with you. Knowing that one does not preclude the other ... 8% think he / she wants to show you his home because it reflects his personality. It's cute.

YOUR PLACE OR MINE ?

54% of respondent (s) prefer to spend the first night in the other. But in case that first night is planned at home, they are they 43% to clean their apartment before, and 32% to change the sheets. 31% do not change anything and leave everything as is. Sex is -among other- the art of letting go, is not it?

Last question, on that first night: do we sleep together or not? 79% of men prefer to sleep with their partner, against 66% of women. The survey does not say if these women leave home because they are bored to death in bed, or if it is simply because they prefer to wake up ... A home next survey?
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In other European countries: 68% of European singles find that sex is important in a relationship 39% have already set the first date 27% prefer to wait for the 3rd appointment before concluding.

57% think that sleeping on the first appointment has no impact on the future of a relationship.

57% consider that an invitation to a last drink at home is a proposal to spend the night together.


74% prefer to sleep with their partner after sex first night.