A budding romance, what more pleasant and motivating? Butterflies in the stomach, waiting opposite the mobile phone, the odds girlfriends ... Attention to avoid turning this little storm cloud, we put everything on his side.
The beginnings of the relationship.
At the beginning of a relationship, there's magic in the air. The hands that graze and seem electrically charged, that smile that will not fade from our beaming ... The compliments that burst, the irresistible attraction ... It has never been so radiant. A deluge chills. We would never want it to stop.
So no question of wasting all this delicious recklessness upon payment of adding your first dinner alone together. The key word: we let go. 10,000 questions and we saw the pre-sent time it avoids asking. Easier said than done, will you tell us, OK. No matter the working attitude.
The fragility of an early relationship
Every birth implies fragility. As an infant who demand all the attention, from the cradle a relationship requires that we take care of it. The pattern is similar in love; the beginning is the moment when we most likely to misfire. Then reflect on past mistakes and try not to reproduce, attention, this is not to compare our fragile Roméo our last ex. Everything for the scare.
I also posted a post " on how to make your relationship last longer " you can find it her
http://dio-advice.blogspot.com/2016/08/tips-to-make-your-relationship-last.html
Pitfalls to avoid for a good start for a relationship
Needless to lie (about her tastes, friends ...), it is quickly unmasked and there one can expect the worst for the future. Far be yourself, it's less tiring.
A man needs oxygen. If one is kind of sticky and very cuddly Care Bears (if not overwhelming), it will feel invaded. Gare! A man who has more than minimum living space will do everything to back down and catch his breath.
In another, we all die of want to call all the time ¼ to know what it does, how it goes, and then they expect him to do the same; suddenly, the phone becomes a sort of holy relic ... like in the song Anais My heart, my love. In truth, it is not even imaginable! And then let time to time, wait for the next call is sometimes a torture but the delight is all the greater once the bell rings. We go out with the girls rather than to manage to be always available.
When we recently experienced, we may well think of tomorrow, but better avoid already consider the next week or next month, much less marriage and brats. Logic, it is true, but we still often tend to want to project in time.
Feeling good in a new relationship
These first moments are magical and we idealize everything. The best is yet to do that this time extends up over time. No secret, you have to put ours that operates this idyll. The dating game which allowed to hypnotize Biquet continue no matter what.
In attitude, the ideal is to adopt the behavior that we would like the other has towards us. We must always respect but also respect each other, freedoms, desires. These are emotional exchanges, full of attention. One must be able to know what we want to bring to the other and what we would like it brings us back, without expecting too early.
fully experience the joy of these moments, maintain this doubled carefree lightness, a budding relationship also implies that we have confidence and that is to trust her new lover. Everything is in place to build a beautiful story, be it short or forever.
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